We have all gone through horrible things in life, stuff no one could imagine. It’s normal to feel sadness over things in life, but just know that you aren’t alone, everyone in this world has gone through something that no one knows about. Sometimes we try and get over certain things in ways that hurt us without even realizing the effect it has had on us. I’d say one of the most difficult things you can experience is a breakup, especially with someone who it felt like they taught you the world and more. So let’s learn how to deal with a breakup. The first thing to remember is that it’s okay to feel how you are feeling. Gender in such a situation doesn’t matter when it comes to breakups, everyone is sad and that’s okay.
Next, is to have someone to talk to about how you feel. Someone you trust and know will give you much consonance through such moments. The third thing to understand is to keep things to yourself, many people after breakups have lots to say, some bad stuff even. It’s okay to have many emotions, but it’s not okay to be rude. It doesn’t matter what the other person is saying, keep to yourself. It will only bring you issues that you will have to later deal with and resolve.
Also, don’t be afraid to show how you feel to yourself. I understand it’s not the best when you show lots of emotions but it’s good to. When you don’t express your emotions and just let them build up until you can no longer take it, it can lead to bad actions and mental problems, so know it’s okay to let it out sometimes. Give yourself space, get off of the platform and just be with you. Don’t go back if it was bad even if it was good. Have fun with friends and forget about your worries. Just remember these two things, when you were a child you had problems, but look at you now, you can’t even remember from back then, so why start now? It’s okay. The last thing is forgive. I will leave you with a scripture so you can remember what love is really.
1 Corinthains 13:4-8
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
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